62 years

In my last post, I was just leaving for Phoenix to attend a wedding industry conference, and promised to tell you all about it when I got home. Unfortunately, I was derailed from doing that because my grandfather passed away suddenly and I'm only now getting back on track. So, I want to devote this post to my grandfather, and I promise to get back to you with the Phoenix update next time!

My grandfather was 91 when he passed away, and his mind was still sharp as a tack even though his body was getting frail. He and my grandmother (who just turned 90) were married for 62 years! In growing up with them and watching them even when I moved out of the house, I picked up a few pieces of wisdom about marriage that I'd like to pass along.

First, keep your sense of humor...laughter really is the best medicine

Second, maintain communication...be honest and open with each other

Third, feed your own interests...you'll be a happier and more well-rounded partner

Fourth, discuss money and plan for the future...so you'll be able to enjoy your retirement comfortably

Finally, always remember to say "I love you!"

I will miss my grandfather's very dry wit and support of everything I do, but am so happy that I had the blessing of him in my life for as long as I did. He was many things to many different people, but to me, he's simply "grandpa."

Until next time, happy planning...