Picking a theme

One of the first things to be decided upon, once you have secured your wedding venue(s), if the "theme" of the wedding. Sometimes, even, this decision is made prior to finding the venue(s), as the theme may dictate what locations you look at. So, the "theme" of your wedding is integral to how you proceed throughout your planning process.

Now, what exactly constitutes a "theme"? Well, it can be very simple -- the colors of your wedding. The theme can be the color scheme; the color of the bridesmaid dresses, the basic flower colors, linen choices, etc.

Sometimes, the "theme" is more elaborate, however. Getting married on the beach? Consider carrying the nautical theme throughout - including your save-the-dates, invitations, bridal party attire, menu cards, linens, centerpieces. Are you having your wedding in a garden setting? The theme can evolve into a Garden Tea Party. Are you just in love with roses? Your theme could be just that - roses - where the invitations are in the shape of a rose, your bridesmaids wear rose colored dresses, and your centerpieces are bowls of water with floating roses.

To start, you want to choose 2-3 colors that you will use throughout your wedding. More than that, and the feel may be more frenetic than you want. Once that's decided upon, then you can see if you want to go farther and incorporate a monogram or a motif that can be repeated on all the paper used for the wedding as well as possibly used in the favors, escort cards, etc. The sky's the limit for your creativity!

Until next time, happy planning ...